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I need help with my sister, she’s recently tried masturbation and isn’t very impressed by it! She asked me to help her by telling her what techniques to try, I have a fiance so I don’t masturbate alot, I’m quickly turned on by the technique of rubbing a circle hard around your clit, but I’d like a couple more techniques to tell my poor sister. Please help!
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I envy you your kid sister. I was the youngest in my family, and only had brothers. I now have some younger women that I live with, and I cherish their friendship and wide-eyed daily discoveries about life and love and self.
One of the things that have become abundantly clear to me is that each and every female body had its own sensations, eccentricities, and sensitivities. The things that turn me on are not the same ones that get Linda or Lieza or Karen’s body revving at full RPM . But let me impart what I have noticed about myself, and my younger friends.
Younger white women usually have to take considerable time trying to discover the treasure of their bodies and what it is that makes their bodies feel good. They often are hesitant to try. Much of this hesitance comes from two major things. One is that they have been taught, either through religious means, or by parental edict, that sex is something to be shunned, whispered about, and embarrassing to talk about. The second is that they have not yet experienced allowing themselves to think positively and in depth about sexual pleasures. Many have not read erotica, nor allowed themselves to enjoy watching males when they are naked, nor discovered the joy of intimacy with a male.
The first thing that you can share with your kid sister is that she should begin to think positively about her body, and about sex. Explain to her that it takes a willingness to explore and learn and experiment in order to enjoy her own body. Find some of your most erotic stories and help her enjoy reading them. Discuss them with her in ways that she does not feel embarrassed. Don’t be afraid to tell her flat out that you find them to be hot, and that you enjoy reading them. Allow her to see that you love sex. Allow her to understand that sex is a god given gift, and not to be ashamed of.
At the same time, be willing to teach her, when the time comes, about the responsibility a woman assumes when she makes the decision to have intercourse. Help her to understand that sperm, even deposited externally on her vagina, can make her pregnant. Teach her how to prevent conception and how to assure she does not contract disease. Facts go a long way to overcoming much of the whispered rumors she has heard in her formative years. Let her experiment with any toys you might have. Make her a gift of a small pocket rocket. But explain to her that it feels much different than a real penis, in as much the real thing doesn’t vibrate.
While you are doing all of this, also tell her what turns you on.
I will tell you what turns me on as well, so that you can share that with her if you so choose.
I like to slowly caress my opening, running my fingers around it, stretching it slightly as I do so. I like to tug softly at my clittie as I stroke my breasts. I like to slide my fingers into my cunt as though they are a penis seeking entry.
I like to move my fingers back and forth across my clittie, letting it bounce slightly as do so. As you described, slow solemn circles around her makes her want to be fondled. Using one hand to tease her, I like to use the other hand to fuck into my opening, starting with one finger and then adding more as I rise higher and higher.
If I am in a submissive mood, I like to pretend that I am tied up and that I have to find things like dildos and soft fabrics to caress my body against. While pretending I am tied up, I allow my fingers to slowly tease me, touching me tentatively and softly, as though my lover is making me wait, making me want them. I pretend that my lover delays penetration as I get wetter and needier. As you can tell, much of the scenario is in my mind, and not real.
When I am feeling dominant, I like to ride my dildo as it perches on my bed. I grind my pussy on it. I like to feel its girth inside me, feel it moving my vaginal sheathe as it gyrates inside my belly. I like to think of my lover saying sexy things to me, telling me how sexy I look as I fuck his hard cock.
I love to do these things while I am watching and hearing erotic videos or audio tapes. The sounds of a woman cooing as her lover takes her is a real turn on for me.
I like to caress the inner lining of my vagina with my fingers, pressing hard enough to stimulate the lower portions of my clit, or stimulating my G-spot. I like to lubricate my perineum with my pussy juices and caress myself there. I like to lubricate my anal opening and caress and even insert my fingers into myself there, especially when I have a dildo inside my pussy. Sometimes I like to take a second thinner dildo and fuck my own ass with it as I ride the bigger one in my pussy.
I like to caress my breasts and nipples, tugging at them, sometimes when I am feeling submissive, even slapping them roughly.
I like to watch my body in a mirror as I do these things. I like to watch the dildos enter me and withdraw. I like to watch my breasts as they wiggle and jiggle as I fuck my fantasy lover. I like to watch my tummy as it fills and hollows as the big cock fills and then empties my womb. I find putting a few lights at certain angle to cast shadows across my belly allows me to see its penetration and fillings.
I like to listen to my lover on the phone telling me what to do to my body as I masturbate. My girls like to describe what I am doing to my lover listening on the phone.
I periodically, especially if I am feeling submissive, like to slap my own ass.
I hope this helps you and your kid sister.
The main thing to understand is that it is her brain that has to be ready first, then her body will follow.
You might suggest to her that experimenting with her body with other girls is both acceptable and very pleasurable. Help her to understand that female - female loving is an acceptable way of learning how to pleasure herself.
I hope this helps, Rae. I remember my shy younger years, wishing desperately that I knew how to do these sort of things. It was not until I started actively participating in my own sexual pleasures that I understood that sex was a pleasure, not a chore.
I sit between your legs and I work your cock to the point where the head swells and gets shinny because the skin is stretched out. I lick, suck, nibble, stroke, massage, pinch, flick, and admire every inch. It is so sensitive now and you moan with each little lick I take. I squeeze the shaft and see some clear liquid coming out. I smile and dip my tongue into it and slowly pull away as I make eye contact with you. It stretches with me and that clear string of precum looks fantastically erotic. I know this means you are close, but don’t cum yet, I need to play more with you.
As I bring you to that edge again the precum flows without my squeezing. I take my thumb and forefinger and pick it up from the tip of your cock and rub my fingers together and reach for my hard clit and massage it in. I love to have some of you on my clit for you to taste later.
My lips surround your swollen head and I gently suck as my tongue explores your slit. I then lick you from the tip to your balls and gently take them one at a time into my mouth as my thumb continues to make small circles on the underside of your cockhead. You moan and say ” that feels so good”. I slide my tongue from your balls back to the tip and feel your body quiver and your cock pulsate. As your cock expands and contracts rhythmically I continue to rub that spot as you cum, shooting it all over your chest. Mmmmmmm …….I try to clean you up with my tongue. My hand still has a grip on your cock, rubbing and massaging but you are squirming and begging me to stop. I now straddle your chest to try and keep you still. I am facing your cock and continue to stroke it very slowly and deliberately in a steady pace. You whimper and a deep moan escapes you as your hips try and pull away from my hands.
Can I continue? Do you want me to keep going even though you are asking me to stop? Will you let me do as I please?